What do women want in a man?
What do women want in a relationship?
What are those things they want to hear?
What do they want you to do in bed?
One thing I know, no man, not a single male person on earth can boldly state he knows the answer to these questions.
I have read dozens of articles online with the hope I will find one with a definite answer but like every man reading this, I still don’t know the answer!
So, I decided to do it the simple way and hear it from the horse’s mouth.
I sought the opinion of some amazing, beautiful and intelligent married and single women.
Don’t worry, I’ll be sharing everything with you but I am going to respect the privacy of these women.
Warning: Expect anything and some bias on my part.
What Women Want In A Man
“The Career Woman” on what she what wants in a Man
The first woman kind enough to help me on this is the charismatic Career Madam, married with kids and running a six figure company.
She wants us to know women differ and fall in different categories.
There is the regular woman, the career women, the go-getter, and the lazy women (she said it) and they all demand different things from their men.
And she was kind enough to give details of their kind of man and what each demands of her male partner.
The Regular Women
They settle for anything
They can marry any ready guy
With average living or understand-able living
He has to be smart, ambitious, be a good listener, caring, attentive to details, and has got to be one who can motivate his woman.
Someone that is ready take up challenges, a big dreamer, not a working-class, and not subjected to his job.
The Career Women
According to madam, the career women are those who believe in their little resources, tend to be bosses and are limited to their career (no big dreams)
And they attracted to career men, already made men, rich kids and if they happen to fall in love, they are as Titania (a special kind of mumu love)
The Lazy Women
This category of women is expected to be very resourceful and hardworking because most of them are of lower social/economic status.
And what do this women want in a man?
They want almost the same as the career women but they are more demanding sometimes.
Some can do anything to keep that marriage or relationship because that is their source of income and stability.
And she couldn’t resist but throw this bomb…
This increases the rate of side chickens 😜 because once a guy believes he holds your stability, he will do as he pleases.. the woman(wife) in question cannot do anything about it.
Once again, that’s not my handwriting…. your response should be addressed to madam.
But what kind of woman is she and what are those things she wants in a man?
She claims to be a go-getter and I agree with her on this (she is the definition of a legit hustler). Below are things she hates and wants in her man.
I hate it when he ignores me, I hate him being lazy, I hate him not being focused, I hate him unkempt (fresh Boi things), I hate it if he cheats but I can forgive, I hate it if he has potential abs and he refuses to work on them, If him nor Romantic (forget I nor do), I hate it when he is too bossy (he is my partner not my dad) and lastly the should be 80% pro in zoza room.. (zaddy thing)
And finally, some relationship advice for us.
Relationships should be based on foundational compatibility, shared goals, and values and love should be the 3rd ingredient. Love fades with time… But your friendship is everlasting.
You can tell it was fun talking to this Madam, might find an excuse to have another chat with her soon.
Unto the next one…..
Young and Beautiful Sister Tells Us What She What Wants in a Man
Question: In your opinion, what are those things guys do that ladies hate, can you please tell me a few?
Y and B Sister:
Well, that’s relative, because what rocks my boat might sink another woman’s ship.
What I might classify as something I don’t like, some ladies might see nothing wrong with it so it depends on the lady.
But let me give you a few and these are based on my perspective.
1. No lady likes a man that doesn’t give her attention.
2. We don’t like a stingy guy.
3. We don’t like a kiss and tell kinda man.
4. We don’t like a man that is not caring, a selfish man…no ladies like that.
5. We hate it when our men don’t showcase us.
Another Young and Beautiful Sister I Like
For her, stability is important, and he has to be real about the relationship (no pretense at all),
Then make him get sense….. I’m really attracted to intelligent guys.
She is no sapiosexual though – she wants a good looking guy. (I knew my odds dropped after that comment)
I am sure there is a lot more where that came from; initially, I was tempted to dig deeper and make her reveal those intricate details but make e no be like my own too much, I had to back off. lol
There were a few others who responded to the question of what women want in a man.
But the response was generic.
For those who don’t know about the generic female demands, below are a few:
I want a God-fearing man.
I want a man who can take care of me.
I want a faithful man.
I want a tall and handsome man.
Blah blah and blah…
What Women Want in a Man according to Science
There have been several studies on this very specific topic.
Do women prefer a bearded man, do they prefer short or tall men, dark colors, and is good looks a must?
Let’s explore what science tells us about women and the kind of male partner they desire.
Women Want a Man that Helps with Housework
Yes, your wife (or girlfriend) wants you to help her with house chores, and it comes with some rewards too.
According to domestic chores research conducted by Dr. John Gottman at the University of Washington, wives are more likely to get in the mood when their man helps out with the housework.
And the logic is simple…
The researchers say that wives feel it is a sign of love and caring when men contribute to the chores.
When a man helps his partner, she will be less stressed about balancing work and home.
Thus making them more sexually attracted to their man.
Women don’t want an Attractive Man
Sounds funny right? But it’s being proven scientifically.
A study by the Journal of Family Psychology discovered looks play an important role in relationships but that’s the least confusing thing about this study.
The researchers looked at 82 couples who had married within the previous six months and had been together for nearly three years before marriage.
James McNulty of the University of Tennessee, who conducted the survey, told LiveScience:
The husband who’s less physically attractive than his wife is getting something more than maybe he can expect to get, he’s getting something better than he’s providing at that level, so he’s going to work hard to maintain the relationship.”
Please don’t ask me “why” women are like this, ask a woman!
Women like Short Men
Dalton Conley, a sociologist at NYU, and Abigail Weitzman, a Ph.D. candidate, used data from the Panel Study of Income Dynamics – a University of Michigan project that’s been collecting demographic data on 5,000 families for almost 50 years – to look at how a man’s height impacts different areas of his relationship after the initial dating period.
It was discovered shorter men have a greater share of housework: On average, they perform 8 hours and 28 minutes per week of housework – constituting about 28 percent of the total – compared to 7 hours 38 minutes for average men and 7 hours 30 minutes for tall men.
Shorter men are more likely to be the breadwinners
The study estimate that 78 percent of short men earn more than their partners, compared to 69 percent of average men and 71 percent of tall men.
Don’t forget women need help with house chores and they love a man who makes “more” money. Short men do have a chance!
Another weird one from Science, but hey it’s SCIENCE, don’t argue it!
You can read more about the study here.
Women want a man with a Beard
Heavy stubble – the type on David Beckham, is the kind of facial hair women find the most attractive.
The authors who conducted the study say that:
Bearded men may be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring.
They also note that beards are equated with fertility and masculinity.
And… Women like Idiots
Have you ever heard of the Darwin Awards?
If your answer is no, here is a little introduction according to Darwinawards.com.
The Darwin Awards salute the improvement of the human genome by honoring those who accidentally remove themselves from it in a spectacular manner.
Let me explain further, the award honor people who die in such an extraordinarily idiotic manner that they ensure the long-term survival of the human race, by removing one idiot from the gene pool.
To you now, can you guess the gender with most wins?
You guessed correctly, male!
Researchers examined data on previous winners of the Darwin Award and it was discovered 88.7% of the award-winners were male.
And woman love who?
Yes, that’s exactly what a woman wants.
What does a Woman Want in a Man according to a Married Woman Who Doesn’t Know
Yes, she is married with kids but she is as confused as we are.
Below is her take on “what women want”:
If I knew the answer to what a woman like in a man, I would have retired rich beyond imagination to my villa in Santorini.
Because I don’t know!
That’s beginning of folly, to think one knows everything, particularly man and woman matter.
Love is complicated – I can tell you that much.
It’s different for different people.
One man’s successful formula is the next man’s disaster.
The best advice is to be yourself, shine your eyes, and enjoy everything, good and bad.
Bad may seem bad at the moment it’s happening but upon reflection and many hospital bills/therapy/replacing broken windscreen later, the lesson will shine through.
Also, love isn’t all sighs and googly eyes, Its heart, and head.
Logic and practicality.
It’s a lot.
It’s indeed a lot, women (and indeed men) are created differently and want different things.
Conclusion on What Women Want…..
I think it’s about knowing what works for you and your partner.
Learning about your partner.
Their likes and dislikes.
Carefully taking note of how better to make things work between you two.
Growing an understanding.
Talk about learning, there is a book i will recommend you read, if you are truly serious about understanding your woman (women can get it for their man – it’s almost free).
What Women Want Men to Know by best selling author Barbara DeAngelis, reveals what women want men to know about loving.
The book explains everything women feel about love, communication, sex and intimacy that they’ve always wished men would know.
What you will discover:
- The three secret needs every woman has.
- Myths men believe about women and why they are absolutely wrong.
- How to avoid turning a perfectly sane woman into a raving maniac.
- Women’s sexual turn-offs – and turn-ons.
- The male communication habits that drive women crazy.
- Sexual secrets about women men need to know.
- How to turn power struggles into cooperation.
- Techniques for being the perfect lover in and out of bed.
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